Last Sunday, my husband and I went to see the musical “Rock of Ages.” It was a lot of fun, and afterward we both agreed that we should go to see more shows. We’ve definitely seen some musicals and plays in our time, but that kind of outing took a hiatus with 3 young kids. But now that they’re older (we should bring them with us now too) it’s easier to go do “grown up” activities, so we decided we definitely need to make that effort.
“The Book of Mormon” recently came through Baltimore, and I mentioned to Bill that I would like to see that one sometime. He said he wasn’t sure he’d be comfortable with something that was so clearly attacking/making fun of a particular religion. I’d read a review in the Baltimore Sun, and I countered that it seemed kind of like Saturday Night Live, in that they kind of poke fun at everything. And that at the heart of it was just an examination of what faith really is, and the questions that many of us naturally have about religion. That it was deeper than just an attack on one particular faith.
*A side note here: the last couple of years have found me in a place where I am questioning almost everything about my Christian faith. Much of what I believed 5, 10 years ago has gone by the wayside and I am in the process of trying to figure out just what I do believe. So a show about questioning your faith would be right up my alley. 20 years ago I would probably have been outraged at a show like this. I wrote a very naive, overly-righteous, black and white critique of “The Last Temptation of Christ” my senior year of high school. The best part was that I hadn’t even seen the movie–ah, the surety of youth. Now I would likely appreciate that very movie on a whole other level.
Anyway. So then I mentioned that something I found interesting about the show was that Mormons have not shown the outrage at this show that you might expect. In fact, they actually have put ads for their churches, to find out more about the LDS faith, in the Playbills.
I said to Bill that, from what little I know about the LDS this isn’t really surprising. We spent 7 years in Laramie, Wyoming, where I was surrounded by more Mormons than I’d ever encountered in my life. (For obvious, geographical reasons.) And, to a man (or woman), they were all some of the nicest, friendliest, happiest people I have ever met. The very first weekend we were there, with the moving truck in front of the house, 2 elders came by and asked if we wanted help moving in. I was totally taken aback. It got to the point where I’d meet someone, think what an incredibly nice person they were, then find out they were LDS and think “Oh right. Of course.”
*Another aside…I’m well aware that not all Mormons can possibly be nice, friendly and happy. I’m basing this observation solely on my own personal interactions. I’m also aware that Mormonism is a controversial faith. I have read Under The Banner of Heaven by Jon Krakauer and was quite disturbed by it, and not just the fundamentalist/polygamous factions. I realize people have a lot of issues with the Mormon faith that are likely justified. However, this blog is not meant to address/judge the Mormon faith in any way, other than as a comparison on this one area. I don’t know enough to be qualified to do that.
Bill’s next comment though, was what really sparked my thinking. He said “Well, that’s because Mormons are pretty secure in who they are.”
I thought, wow. That is so true. Then I thought about my own faith, Christianity. If there were a “Book of Mormon” type musical about Evangelical Christianity, can you imagine the outrage?? Shoot, Christians cry “persecution!” if they get wished ‘Happy Holidays” for crying out loud. And maybe that’s because we’re not secure in who we are. There are hundreds of denominations, none of which agree on a whole host of topics. Are Christians pro-life or pro-choice? Are we Democrat or Republican? Do we believe in evolution or solely in a young earth theory? Can gay people be Christians? Do we tithe? Practice Lent? Sprinkle or immerse for baptism? You could compose a very long list of the things that Christians disagree on, from the banal to the more serious, with people falling everywhere on the spectrum from ultra-conservative to super liberal with many in between. And we love to claim that “our” particular brand of Christianity is the “true faith” and that “those people” can’t possibly really be a Christian. Perhaps that lack of true identity is what makes us feel so insecure, what makes some Christians feel like they are under attack and have to fight imaginary persecution at every turn, because we don’t have any idea who we are and what it really means to be a Christian.
Which gives us shaky ground where the rest of the world is concerned. When you ask the average person “What is a Christian?” you will get a whole host of answers, and I’d be willing to bet that a lot of them would be negative.
The Bible tells us to find our identity in Christ. And Jesus, over all things big and small, emphasizes “love your neighbor as yourself”. Love God, love your neighbor. Love is what our identity should be rooted in, what our faith should be rooted in. Not rules. Not politics. Not judgment. Not one-upmanship. Love is the bottom line.
The old song goes “And they’ll know we are Christians by our love.” I don’t think that’s true at all.
I wonder if we can get that identity back.